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How To Discipline A Child With Spd. There is often no point in trying to discipline if she is in meltdown mode Being extrememly patient kind loving until she snaps out of it is the only thing that works for us then we talk about the situation when shes calm. Listening to calming music. Its important to really know what is going on inside your childs head because it often is very different from ours. A great way to help them develop responsibility for their SPD is to make them speak for themselves.
I know its not meant this way but I cringe when someone says they hate spd. Some children with SPD actually bump into things throw themselves on the ground or stomp their feet not to be disrespectful but more to feel their environment. Take the Free Quiz. This can encourage good behaviour and reduce the need for discipline 3. Anonymous At school develop a color coding chart for your child to review throughout the day – my engine is running green yellow or red. I wouldnt want to be normal.
Set clear expectations Telling your child exactly what you want them to do is much more effective than telling them what not to do says Professor Cluver.
When you ask a child to not make a mess or to be good they dont necessarily understand what theyre required to do Clear instructions like Please pick up all of your toys and put them in the box set a clear expectation and. So instead of punishment or rewards they need to be taught self regulation. To me it is my quirks. For us its removing dessert or TV privileges. Find activities that calm their bodies for example swinging Talk with an Occupational Therapist or find a center that provides movement therapy to help the childs sensitivity. As a parent of a child with a special needs we feel guilty taking time for ourselves.